What to do ..how to say no to mariage ...am i taking right decision ?

Marry this girl your mom selected for you. She is not an illeterate girl. She is skilled in household affairs, not many girls now - a - days are. You may marry a graduate or Ph D girl but is there any guarantee that she will be 100 % faithful, love you deeply & be highly co-operative ? On Orkut, you will find mostly highly ambitious girls, you will not be able to control.